GENERAL SPOILER ALERT: They all live happily ever after.
Thinking about Parenthood, tonight, I thought about Little Women and Jo. In that book, Jo experienced some true disappointment. She worked for an impossible aunt with the promise that her efforts would eventually be rewarded with a trip to Europe. But when the time came, the aunt told Jo that she didn't believe that Jo was of a suitable temperament to accompany her, that she would prefer to take Amy, Jo's sister, a sibling that Jo helped support by working for the impossible aunt, a pretty younger sister who had never had to take on the responsibilities of Jo. As a reader, this felt unfair, but it also felt real and imaginable. The trip had further consequences. While in Europe, Amy fell in love with Laurie, the next door neighbor who Jo had turned down, much to this reader's initial disappointment, because she felt they were more suited to be friends. It was another hard decision, against sentimental reason, with consequences.
Parenthood seemed to in the end vote for sentimentality with both feet. A man is unfaithful to his fiancee. She will eventually forgive him and there will be a speedy wedding where true, undying love is declared, even though another promising life beckoned with a man who seemed mature, stable, and genuinely adored her and her son. Two brothers partner together on a start-up and are offered literally millions of dollars for their venture. One of the brother is a savvy businessman who has a daughter about to start attending an Ivy League school and a child recently diagnosed with special needs. His wife recently had another baby. They have financial issues. The other brother does not want to sell; the business is his dream. The brothers never seriously discuss the deal. The brother in need eventually announces that they will decline it, because he enjoys working with his brother so much. In another instance, one of the sisters is dating a younger man. She breaks up with him, because she realizes that she doesn't want to have more children, and that may be something that he really wants. At the end of the show, he comes back and say all of that doesn't matter, and they are now engaged.
Let me say that if the show continues, I will still watch it, but I would have to always exercise or eat my lunch at the same time, and it would not get a place on the DVR hierarchy. I would be watching it on Demand. If they would start making some hard choices. I could just sit and watch. I would fight for its right to be recorded. But I would need some genuine complexity to enter the picture. If everything is eventually going to lead to Door #2 and behind that is sunshine and lollypops, where is the genuine drama of the story of a family? This show used to take some risks. Maybe it's just a case of low ratings, of wanting to tie everything up nicely after fighting for survival basically since its inception, that has caused this simplification and soapiness. I wish it didn't have to end the season and perhaps the series this way. The Bravermans used to be a much quirkier bunch.